Originally Posted By: OogwayKungFuPanda
One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it.
Or in other words, what you do to prevent D will most likely bring the D about.

That is why DBing is important. Take control of your thoughts, actions and words. If you want D, then file. If you do not want D, you can still protect yourself and let S do all the work if she chooses to D you. It is your choice. Make the best decision for you. Accept the natural consequences.

I let W do all the work, but still protected myself with a good A. I chose not to argue with W. I had A argue. I am still assertive with MsR2C.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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