im sorry thinker. that sucks. retro was supposed to be about problem solving, not problem creating. But i can see from reading your posts that your wife had an agenda of not cooperating to begin with. She went in there with her claws out ready to shoot down anything that was thrown at her.
how inconsiderate people are. In the worst of times, those times when a small step is need to confirm or deny something, they choose not to step and. They choose to continue with their ways as they see fit. It is so unfortunate that you had to go through that.
Stand strong my brother. There is still hope. Now anger is your ally. Use it to shield your feelings for a bit. It will help you detach even more i recon.