True, I am so happy to see that you are enjoying life a bit and not taking the dating game seriously. When the right man comes along, you will know it.
As for your xh, it's nice to see that you can have a pleasant email correspondence w/o him asking for money.
Send the rain our way...we need it! Enjoy your week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.