Hi Grace,

I don't have any illusions about a romantic reunion with H. I was acutally just looking forward to doing something, anything fun with H to build back up the good feelings that are dwindling between us. My love tank is below empty...!

I agree I was having a pity party this morning. I need to focus on me and building me back up a bit.

I have the book you mentionned but haven't read it since January when H left, so maybe its worth a re-read. Physical is good. didn't work out this weekend since the weather here was bitter cold..will try to be more consistent with that as I've gotten a bit lax/lazy!

Thanks for the encouragement and good advice.

H leaves for a business-type trip Sunday until next Wednesday. This'll be the first time apart since he moved home. I'm actually looking forward to not having to deal with his moods and I'm hoping somewhere along the way he might even miss me... I guess we'll see.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.