Walked past my wife's new home and there is a car in the driveway. Okay. Walked past it again later on my way back from a friends and saw somebody have a cigarette out the back door. The OM of course smokes.
I stopped myself all the way to the top of her street where I shouted 'I hope you enjoy yourself _'.
So he's here and it's actually thrown me quite a bit. I didn't think it would as I have been so strong.
My question is, what do I do now? Do I just carry on as before like nothing has happened and refuse to talk about us when I see her with my daughter?
Everybody wants me to go for a divorce on the grounds of adultery (which I would then get an immediate divorce over here). I'm really not sure at all what to do.
I'm a bit thrown to any help and advice appreciated.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
