I keep writing to XH about the area, the weather etc. and what I do – without mentioning my dating, of course. I also wrote about the food which is available in autumn and once he replied that he felt like taking the next plane back!
Lately, I have been almost in DAILY e-mail contact with XH. He wrote once or twice a day and I replied immediately. Mainly we exchanged funny stories or jokes. He even wrote that considering we are divorced we seem to do quite a lot of mailing – LOL. He is glad that we can stay friends. He then told me that XOW told him not to write to her anymore. He didn't understand it though. So I asked him never to mention her name to me again. He replied that he wanted to make it clear that he didn't leave me for her or anybody else (he always said that) and that she never meant that much to him! (I remember my niece telling me that he told her at the beginning of there R how much in love he was!!)
XH continued to write that I should be careful with the guy I thought of going on holiday with.
I had an enjoyable week-end and went to some live music performance and also to "my" social network group.
Although I said I wouldn't write to ads on the same singles platform I saw some interesting ads and did reply to them. One ad was so good that I wrote: "hello Mr. Too-good-to-be-true" – LOL. So far he has not replies.
I just talked to one of my GFs and told her that the guys I find most interesting and who have the most in common with me never reply.
Last week was still lovely and it was sunny and even warm enough to go sun bathing, however, the water got too cold for me to swim. A few days ago we finally got some much needed rain and now it is getting cold rather quickly. I just hope that we will still have some nice autumn days before winter sets in.