I have an admission to make regarding meeting someone on Match., I met my H there 10 yrs ago when it was in it's infancy. I was on for a total of 6 days & he was my 1st & last date.
I also met NG on Match., after being a member a total of 3 days, 1st & only date.
They're both Gemini's (as is my xH), same all around appearance, height, etc.
I almost didn't go out with NG because I didn't want to repeat my pattern.
Anyway, I think it's a pretty good way to meet people & in some ways it can be safer than meeting someone say in the grocery store.
NG did tell me some pretty good Match. stories, like meeting a woman who posted some elses pictures & another that was a good 10 yrs older than she had in her profile. The lying about your age is pretty common I guess.
"Then I review the photos. Shirtless--no go. Holding a beer in every picture--no go. Bad teeth--no go. Sorry, but you have to be selective and if I am snobby so be it!"
In looking thru the profiles, I couldn't believe all the shirtless/flexing ones posted. Who does that appeal to?
You can be ruthlessly selective, that's the beauty of meeting someone that way.
There are also a huge amount of laughs to be had @ Match., which is a good thing when parts of our world are so serious & unfunny.
