I would like to know if my wife was in an affair. I just don't want to just do more of the same controlling behavior. I just wish I knew what to do.
JJ
Your second sentence should have nothing to do with the first. It's not "controlling" to determine if there is a predator threatening your family; in fact, it's your OBLIGATION to. Your fear of the second thing is precluding you from finding out definitively the first thing.
