I want her back to being my loving wife again and let me prove to her that I can make her happy.
LHSM,
This is a tough lesson to learn (I know -- I was (and still am) a lot like you), but you cannot "make" ANYONE happy. They have to make themselves happy.
Have you read anything about co-dependency and enmeshment? Just reading this one post, and seeing what you selected as your username, I'm thinking this may benefit you more than anything.
Are you sure there's no one else? Her words sure fit the script.
