I've Come Full Circle #27

[mishka422]

After my D

Whoa! That sounds horribly like you've given up entirely! Stop that!

I found out via a "friend" who read it in the paper and just had to tell me.

WHAT????!!!!! In the paper? Seriously? They publish petitions for D in the paper there??? OMG! It must go on for pages and pages!

Yes, coward. Yes, a$$. The agreement is written 80/20? I assume the 80% is supposed to be his. IMO, he needs a reality check and you are just the one to give it to him...BIG TIME!
Kids are expensive, he should know that since you have 4 of them! Put together a spreadsheet of every medical expense you have since the D was final. Total his 80% at the bottom and subtract what he has actually paid toward that. Send him an itemized freakin' bill and make copies and give to your L. This is completely ridiculous! It's not like he doesn't have the money to pay it, he is just chosing not to. WRONG! He doesn't get to pick and choose what he pays for in regards to the kids.