My W has met with an IC twice now. He's the same IC that I started seeing at the beginning of this and has been a HUGE help to me and takes the approach that a person can only change themselves and that ultimately a person has to honor themselves and do what works for them first and foremost. It's not just, "be selfish and F everyone else," but rather "Who are you at your core and are you honoring that with what you're doing?"
I'm hoping to get a job somewhere soon that is fulfilling to me and works with my schedule so that I can have at least a little income while I try and GAL. I'll get there (hence my board name).
Thanks for the feedback and good luck in your process!
