Thanks Puppy. It does feel good. As I said, it's too late but the power shift, even if it's miniscule, still feels nice.

Any advice on how long to wait and how many dates to reject if any? After looking at them they are all pretty reasonable and around a week apart on average so it's not too much. I one again don't want to appear to be a pushover though!


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"