Wow, your story sounds exactly like mine. I just posted my story in another thread in newcomers. I would love to hear how things go for you. I just moved into the guest bedroom today. My wife has almost the exact complaints that your wife does. I did all the wrong things do. I have cried, begged and promised but she says it is too little too late. She says she is not in love with me anymore and needs to to herself to figure out if she missed me and wants me back. Right now she says she is numb and has no feelings for me.

I hope you and will both have a happy ending when this is all done. I do NOT want a divorce. I love my wife with all my heart and soul.