She Lost Her Love For Me - Now What?

[brknheart]

Sounds similar to what I am going through right now. One thing I can suggest that I didnt do from the beginning, dont make her think you are so needy. Dont contact her to often, dont plead to her about working things out, dont keep telling her you love her. I did all of these things the first 2 weeks my wife moved out and I may have pushed her to far back where she is never coming back. I started reading DR book last week, I am more than halfway through it. I suggest you pickup a copy, it has some great info in it. My W and I also dont have children, so thats a big plus if we do end up getting a divorce. I love my wife dearly and hope that giving her space, she will eventually realize that what we had was good and the past year shouldnt throw 9 years of marriage away. BTW, my wife said that after 3 days of moving out, she realized she didnt want to make the marriage work. I think she got a taste of independent life. I still have hope she may miss me and come back.

Good luck.