Sorry about your sitch. I agree with undrdg, it actually sounds like you're pretty tough yourself and you're already developing a good attitude about what you can do to start fixing things. It took me MONTHS to get to this website and these principals so pat yourself on the back for the head start.
Just get ready for this to take a lot of time. Your W seems like a stranger now but gradually her real personality will come back if you stop begging and pleading.
Hate to jump to conclusions, but I'm turning into a bit of an enlightened pessimist about these things. Do you think there may be another man? I don't want to make you paranoid, and hopefully that's not the case, but just confirming yes or no could be a useful piece of info about how to proceed with her.
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011
