Last resort technique, what to say?

[brknheart]

I see. She usually brings up the R stuff, especially things she is going to do in the future. Its like a kick in the gut each time she talks about herself alone without me. Despite that, I still love her and would like to create a new relationship with her. That said, I am trying to move on, doing more things with friends, looking at moving to another city, etc. If she brings up the D or R, Ill kindly ask her if we can just talk about something else. Thats if she ever calls me, I dont want to call her, she may think im still being needy.