Wife out till 3;30 in the morning

[JTJ]

Puppy,

The biggest problem I have is I don't know if she is in an active affair. If I knew for sure I would take a tuff love approach. My wrong and her wrong don't make right.

Your correct no easy answers. When I did speak up last friday she told me to just give her a divorce and thats its not fair for her to do it. I just don't know what to do.

But she sleeps in the same bed and still talks to me about her day, the kids, and what she would like to get done around the house. Could all that be gas lighting behavior?

Thanks

JJ