- What specific behaviors should I try to be avoiding in the weeks and months ahead?
- What are my potential vulnerabilities here, based on my situation as I've described it to you?
- What are my wife's potential vulnerabilities, that I should be keeping note of?
- Is ours a "fault" or a "no-fault" state when it comes to divorce, and -- if "no-fault" -- are there any legitimate grounds that at least affect alimony and custody?
- Should I be wearing my wedding ring?
- Is it okay if I date while separated? Does it help me if I don't, but she does?
- To what extent do you work primarily with MEN in your past cases? 100%? 50%? other?
- Legally, what methods of gathering intel ("snooping") am I allowed to do in our state?
- Should it come to a contested divorce, based on my situation and the family court judge(s) in our jurisdiction, what do you think our chances of winning are, realistically?
Those are just a few, off the top of my head. I'm sure there's better and more thorough lists on the internet if you do a search.
