I think you are dealing with a personality disorder. She flagrantly disregarded the rules of dialogue that were taught. To what purpose? Just a week ago she was arguing to stay married for the kids. Then she has the chance to fix the marriage and create a happy life, and she systematically sabotages it. It doesn't make sense.
I think Lotus is onto something here. It sounds like she was aggressively defensive, if that makes sense. And if so, it points to a whole lot of fear.
I'm sorry the weekend was such a bust.
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Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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