So....do I tell Gabe he has to have Marc and get him to his testing because that is what was supposed to happen or just suck it up, cancel my Saturday plans to play taxi, and paste a smile on my face?
Put that way, it sounds totally selfish of me to be mad that I'm missing my stuff for my child. Bad mom.
I don't think you're selfish at all. Gabe is the one that is trying to get out of being a dad, when it's not convenient for him or the broom or whatever. I would text him you have plans you can't cancel, and maybe you could meet with your cousin and go to the Highland Games, or take your cousin to the Highland Games, etc.
You know I was like that for years, and one thing of many I've learned this past couple years is when you have a special-needs child you NEED a break and time for yourself!!!! It's not selfish, it's necessary!!!
