No, neither route are pleasent. But, on a positive, be greatful there aren't any kids involved, uggh, I wouldn't trade my boys for anything in the world (ok, maybe a girl ) but that really complicated the D process and the recovering process.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
) but that really complicated the D process and the recovering process.