Been a bad morning for me so it is good to hear something positive! You are right, I am a lot better off than a lot of people on these boards. I really do have to try to keep that in perspective. At least me and W are still cordial to each other which says something I guess. The thing I have been most thankful of when reading other people's sitches is that at least we don't have any kids wrapped up in this mess.
I had been doing well with the detaching over the past few weeks and my attitude had become more positive. I tried my best to prepare for the apartment discussion coming back up and at least I handled it well when talking to her. I have just been hurt, angry and numb since the discussion (I thought rollercoasters were supposed to be fun!!)
Sorry you are here but it has definitely been helpful for me to get support from people in similar sitches. I think this forum and the books recommended in people's posts have been the only thing keeping me sane!
I am definitely pulling for you and every other person on this forum - take care - HBH
