All I can add to this is keep being patient. She is still in the house with you. As long as that is the case, there is still hope to reconcile. Keep your daily interactions positive and subdue your anger around her at all costs.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...