My goals are mostly stuff having to do with house projects, kids, exercise, etc. (Anyone have good tips on motivating kids to get out the door in the morning with minimal fuss?? Yikes - what a morning we had. Three very non-morning people trying to get going with minimal crabbiness is seemingly impossible!:))
I am still trying to figure out how to set goals in regards to an MLC husband. He still barely lifts a finger around here though is engaging more with stuff with the kids. I just don't know how to do that . . . especially with relationship stuff.
I will say that he has done several little "goals" I had in the past couple of weeks and the only one I really "manipulated" was the reading with my D at night - I sent her to ask him to read and he did. First time in probably a year!! Now to see if we can get it being a regular thing again . . .
This whole being able to ask/live without expectations has been great. It even works well in relationship to other people besides my H! Who knew.
