Wife out till 3;30 in the morning

[JTJ]

Puppy,

In the past I would always tell her "we don't need this" and "we don't need that." She felt nothing ever was accomplished. Her LL is def acts of service. I'm trying to fill her tank. Instead of saying no all the time I'm trying to really listen and deliver. If i didn't do anything for her because i thought she was just going to divorce me anyway. Imo that would prove I don't Love her regardless of what she thinks. I will admit I'm a no man and not a yes man, but I expect everyone else to say yes to me. Now that I don't get that anymore I realize how I never listened, acted upon, and deliver as often as I could. On the other hand If I don't want to do something I should speak up and voice my opinion in a caring and loving way. It just seemed to come from a place of selfishness when i would do this in the past.