Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thank all of you.

Each of you bring up so many good points. I need to start to focus.

I feel like my mind is going in so many directions and there's so much to think about. I'm not sure where to start.

I know this is the right thing to do. I also realize I have been reacting to his actions.

I need to break it down but I don't know how.

I need boundaries.

I need to start with H coming and going as he pleases.

I feel like I'm a basket case. Sometimes I think rationally and other times I just want to crawl into a hole and never come out.

S is doing okay...I'd say he's resigned.

Not sure if I'm making any sense.