I understand your point of view. I have so many regrets and if I had it to do over again, I'd do a lot of things differently. But I've made many changes, and I feel very good about those changes. I just wish that she would have given me a second chance...I'd have spent my life making it up to her. It saddens me that I don't get that chance.
Antlers, if you haven't already you should read this book asap. Mars and Venus Starting Over by John Gray. Everything we need to understand and execute the healing process is right there.
Coach,
Do you think this book would be good for my wife and me right now, considering where we are?
