SPECIAL thanks to you for posting about your convo with BF and asking him about what led him to take the chance to try reconciling with you!!!! I and, no doubt, many others appreciate that a LOT. It is interesting that it really boiled down to the link that existed between you and him ----- that you kept the path home smooth and inviting. Both you and 25yearsmlc have posted about how important this is and I am trying to remember this. Although feedback you got from mutual friends and family about BF's situation helped to give you hope to keep going, it doesn't sound as though any of their input really impacted his decision.
On Jody's advice I am penning a letter to send to my H about 2 weeks before Dday. Would you please be willing to give me feedback on it? I hope to post a draft of it to my thread within a couple days. Your experience and positive spirit would be very much appreciated.
