Is this the end of my marriage?

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Okay. Is Robx (forgive my ignorance I have been reading and reading and reading this forum for the last two days and some of the names are a blur) a user on here?

When you say go dark, you mean stop all contact including that with my daughter (her step-daughter)? I have started a College course recently and taken up a dance class which is FANTASTIC for the self-confidence. My wife always wanted to go dancing with me and lo and behold I'm doing it myself something she thought I would NEVER do.

I have spoken to a solicitor and we are going down the separation agreement route (I am in the UK so things work differently over here). She has recently said she doesn't want anything from me so while she is in that mood I want things moving.

Her motives are financial which I will explain about below and mine are protecting myself and my house. She has said 'lets do the online separation agreement' which isn't worth the paper its is written on and when the divorce appears in two years she will easily contest it. She has also said she can't afford a solicitor (daddy has lots of money) and doesn't want to do it that way ... it's all stalling and nonsense.

The home is mine. My solicitor says that she would need to prove it was a family home (which it was never purchased for) before it would be considered. The home here is a base to see my daughter from nothing more.

My wife has said she wants half of the house ONLY if it is sold. This is why she is stringing it out. If the house is sold before next July any money she comes into has to go to trustees to pay her debts off. AFTER next July it's all hers.

She has done nothing about a divorce at all even though she says she wants it.

As an update to the above too I forgot to mention about several texts.

Over that week I was on holiday I sent her two texts asking her to leave me alone. The first one she immediately came back with 'if thats what you want' - the same old script - the second one was pretty much the same. While she says it's over she continues to string me along and keep me hanging. Unfortunately I've realised it too late but at least I realise it now.

While this next bit might not be entirely relevant, it is to me. She was here on Wednesday when we spent a (fantastic fun day) with my daughter. If you didn't know we'd separated you would never have guessed, but anyway. She was bending over to get a plate out of the cupboard. I had to get past, there wasn't enough room so I deliberately brushed quite hard against her while she was bending over (okay I thrust myself at her a$$) just to see what her reaction would be. She never even twitched. When she has been handing me things I've been doing the same deliberately touching her hand when I didn't have to - nothing there either. Why isn't she flinching? If it was me my head would have went through the top of the cupboard if she had thurst at me the way I did ... it makes me laugh it really does. The games WAS play ...

(Any guys reading this if you want some self-confidence back and get to be around a lot of women go to a class - all the women in my class are married but GUYS DON'T GO TO THESE CLASSES! There are about a dozen women in my class and two guys including me - the other guys is there with his girlfriend - I'm not interested in married women but you know, having a laugh with other women, dancing close to them and just having a good laugh with them has done wonders for me - I would say more than anything else).