One of the things I have learned about a live-in is....
We LBS'ers of a live-in, means that we have way more interaction with them through this...
And that we don't have the oppurtunity to be on a stage just once in a while, so they see ALL of our emotions as well as theirs.
Most MLC'ers don't have a firm grasp about what they are thinking, let alone process what they see in us.
For me...I realized that it had to be okay to show that emotion if you feel it, just also make sure you show how you are dealing with it differently than you had in the past too...
I was always the one who held everything in, and said very little about what was bothering me. Not anymore....
In the beginning of that, I kinda did that just to 180.
Then it started to feel really good for ME to do that, and now, it is a part of sho I have become and don't really worry about when or how, cause I know I am not the same person...
Once you start doing that, you will realize and YOU will see the changes that you have made for you, and then you will trust yourself enough to just be you.....cause the person that you have become, will SHINE anytime, through good and bad.
Is this about what you said ? OR HOW you said it ?
