Here's what I'm responding to the email on seeing the kids today:
Good morning H, Yes, the kids will be available today for you to see them. Although D13 will probably be at the barn. I will return around 8:45-9 so you can stay longer than 8 if you like. Have a safe trip.
Good enough, right? No pursuing. Polite, not too much convo.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10