There is a reason that they use that phrase in AA. It's because looking any further ahead than that can cause relapse. Think of the way you love your H as an addiction. He is not the man you fell in love with so he is now bad for you, much as alcohol is bad for an alcoholic. The addiction has to be treated and sometimes the only way is to be separated from it.
Make sense?
That's the best advice I've heard or read in weeks. So hard to actually do though. Just get through the week.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
