Divorce lawyers and court costs here are crazy. Full out fight 85k to the sky each person. For a collaborative D it is 45 to 65k both together. Madiation is 15 k to 25 k togeher. In the later two if you cannot agree then it goes to the first choice. Court ordered at that point.
I'm sorry, but this doesn't sound right to me. Is this what your atty is telling you, or have you verified all of this independently?
