So..This weekend, my h started with the d stuff again, started sleeping in the basement again. I thought maybe it had to do with alleged OW however, I am not sure there is even OW, the reason...because on Sat. night when he started this crap I did not react, he followed ME around the house, he said he could not stand being around me..he did not love me blah blah blah..then he packed his bookbag and said he was leaving, I said where will you be staying he said wherever I want, I said okay, good bye. no tears..no reaction...so, I left and went to my parents. About an hour or so later I called my house to check my messages and he answered, I used redial on my phone when I got home and he had tried to call my cell phone, which was in his car. Last night, he wanted to lay with me, and stayed upstairs again, he said I am sorry for leaving, I just get depressed sometimes. Do you think this has more to do with hating his life right now rather than hating me? More to do with dropping out of law school and leaving his job? If there was OW why would he not have went to be with her? Why would he not spend more time with her..Maybe he wants to leave his life because he feels like a failure..and so this is his reaction to me. But this time..I will not react. Stronger..after everything you have read..do you really think there is OW??
