What is it with the WAS that they dont want us but dont want anyone else to have us either! Nothing wrong with a bit of analysing as long as you dont get to hung up on it, and if seeing their faux pas, and struggling to keep their fascade up gives you a giggle then why not, seems a bit sweet revenge known again knowing its not all roses for them.

I do think his comment about if he had stayed he would have committed suicide is unfair, he has put all the onus on you to make him happy and not himself, if that comment comes up again, dont take credit for his life. What I mean is you were quick to say, how very kind of you to make me feel bad, next time short sentance of "Im not responsible for what you have allowed your life to become" same as I said to my H "Im not clearing up your rubble, you built the wall either do the maintenance or clear up after its fallen down"

Sit back and wait now hun, dont get over enthausiatic hes got a long way to go before you see anything more, indulge in me time as much as you can and enjoy it, I know I have got a bit too caught up in H's is coming every thing must be perfect, but it cant be something you cant keep up for ever otherwise you will be back to square one again!

See you in the burrow later maybe!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!