It sounds like your H is ready to start turning a corner ... ?? Certainly, he is respecting your boundaries and is accepting of your conditions. That's so positive Cas - I can only imagine the amount of self control it has taken you to get him this far.
It's good that you feel that amount of detachment so as to lower your anxiety levels ... I think that I can relate to that and it's what allowed us to have a more positive day on Sunday. That bit surely DOES work!
It's so hard not being able to hug H when he is right in front of you. It takes every inch of moral fibre, right ... especially when you are 'acting as if' and everything appears to be going quite nicely.
Oh, btw, the book that you told me about is now in the library and I will pick it up on Saturday! Looks like they have sent it to the wrong library however, so I hope that it's there. I must ring them tomorrow!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
