Wrote an e- mail-businesslike but couteous-saying that I was too afraid to meet him in case he used emotional pressure regarding the settlement. I told him that if settlement isnt agreed between us by Jan. when house goes up for sale then Ill take it to court for their decision. Ended by saying I hoped he was happy with himself,his choices and his future.Recieved this e-mail by return-Dear Caroline,
I understand. I thought you would be full of trepidation about meeting - I am too. I hadn't even planned to ring when I did or thought of suggesting a meeting but I couldn't help it - being as I will be in York. On my life I would not dream of trying to apply emotional pressure. There's not a day goes by when I don't think about you and pray you are ok. I too would be in danger of succumbing to emotional pressure - probably more so than you.
I know you have made a better life for yourself and have gathered your strength. I don't want to disturb you that for you. But I was so glad to have spoken with you. Thank you for giving me a few months grace. I'm just empty at the moment and need to get some strength back. I'm living like a bit of a hermit at the moment but I think its necessary to take stock.
I can't afford to employ a solicitor so I'll to continue this myself.
I hope you're right about a job coming up. If so I will consider buying you out. In the meantime I will get some estate agent valuations. I'll keep in touch by phone and email.
Bless you Caroline and keep you safe and happy.
Christopher x So- this is a turn up after so long a silence. Feel far too overwhelmed to interpret this.How best to respond?
