1st divorce was MY doing. Got back together then broke up then got back together, got married again. She threw me out, asked for me back and then there was a 3 mo separation. 3 mo separation lasted 2 wks when she asked for D.
The 2nd M was a new commitment, one that I never had before in the R. And after that was a 3 mo honeymoon period where things were great. But I backslid and she had her own prescription med-inspired breakdown that led to that. I take a lot of the blame for things going wrong. But I don't think that matters much.
Glutton for punishment? I dish it out, too. I'm looking for a whole M and I'm taking care of my issues. I'm starting to seriously detach from the sitch and my W.
She has a lot of anger issues she's in denial about and I won't be able to break through. She's going to have to deal with them on her own and I don't see that happening any time soon.
Last edited by M A Holm; 10/12/0906:28 AM.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
