Thank you for continuing to provide valuable information.
Right now, I am having a tough time dealing with her control issues. I have to continue to remind myself that I am the one in control of this situation.
I do believe that mediation is part of the process. I do plan on discussing all of my concerns if we are asked to visit with a mediator.
By the way, I did find out a bit more about the OM from a fellow coworker of his. The OM has a problem with his temper. The coworker admits he avoids OM due to his inability to contol his temper at times. Plus he is a smoker. So, my MLC'er and the OM are both smokers.
More than likely, they smoke inside their apartment. That means my son is inhaling second hand smoke. How nice of them.
My WAS did not smoke inside our home when we were together. She actually hid her smoking from our son.