Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[antlers]

hey antlers... checking up on you and sorry to hear about the D proceedings.

The detaching will come. Ask God to help you with detaching to the point you aren't concerned about her thoughts, actions or feelings. He can help you get there. That detachment doesn't mean you're giving up hope, but rather protecting yourself and your heart. If it's His will that you come back together, it will happen regardless of the detachment. So pray for strength and the ability to detach.

Focus on your kids. Ride the bike (but not obsessively), listen to music, get out with the family and enjoy the fall. You can do it, and we're here to support you. Take care.

Thank you. I'm sorry for the hurt that you feel also.

I hope it will come. I ask God daily to help me do just that. I want Him to help me detatch to the point where I'm not concerned about her thoughts, feelings, or actions. I hope He'll help me get there. I do pray for strength and the ability to detatch. I want to feel peaceful and centered.

My kids are my joy. I ride regularly. Thank you for being there to support me mnt_dreams. Been spending more time with friends too.