Ok, so this is her typical way of reacting and interacting. So, it's a personality shift that is going to have to take place.
Do you know any of her female friend's? Better yet, her female friend's husband's? If so, there is a book that your wife needs to read and the only way to probably get it to her without her connecting it back to you would be through a friend. It's called "For Women Only". It is a short read but puts into perspective for women how our communication styles and our way of speaking and talking is interpreted by men. Important stuff.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!