A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Hmmm, they do feel bullied, but from what I've seen, they usually say, "Look, just tell her it's blue so she'll shut up."

I will watch from a distance. How can I fiddle while Rome burns? Easy. I don't live in Rome.

I think MIL's issues with me go back to before the wedding. During the discovery phase of the D, we pulled a copy of the trust they hold their property in. A few days before the wedding, H was taken off the trust. He is still a recipient - at least so far - but he is no longer a trustee, meaning that he has no signatory or decision-making power. I think she may have had suspicions at the time that I was out for his money. <shrug> Who knows.