W had pulled back a lot. I asked her what was going on with her and she told me she's spending some time focusing inward. She doesn't seem to get how her ups and downs affect me.
I was very loving in telling her that I am sorry that she is in this place.
Now I'm getting thoughts of "I deserve better than this." I really haven't been focusing on "us" as much this weekend as usual though.
Just a little more detached.
I checked in over at your thread. Keep up the GALing!
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.