On this being pursuit behavior, you haven't had an R talk in a while have you? And he did say "sure"!! Then you dropped it so wasn't like you kept hammering at it.
I would think they wouldn't necessarily be long or involved as long as you just touch base once in awhile that their aren't issues that aren't being addressed.
At least I could see David and I needing to do that as our past pattern has been to sweep things under the rug rather than address them with one another.
Of course I guess ideal would be not to have to have R talks unless their is an issue one of you wants addressed. My fear is David would possibly still not bring up his issues unless their is a time specifically to address things.
Ok, don't know if I made any sense or not. Will be interested in seeing how you resolve this one.
Hope you have a great day!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Then you dropped it so wasn't like you kept hammering at it. 
