Before you go on judging her, you had the affair first. What you're feeling is what she felt before. I think she's running from guy to guy to hurt you while she's still dealing with her own hurt.
Do you think it hurt her when you had your A? You can't justify it and it's something that doesn't "just happen". Let her deal with it her own way. Detach and let things go their own way.
Stuck I totally understand what you are saying. And I'm really going to have to now.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09
