Thanks GAG ... yes, it was a good visit and got me a good nights sleep last night. Of course, waking this morning was peaceful until I realised, yet again, that H was not here and the bowling ball to the belly was back on line!
Most people's WAS has left for an ow/om but mine did not. He stuck to our pre-M promise of ending things before considering an ow - such was our belief on infidelity, which interestingly, we were both adamant about. It's why he still doesn't consider that he is having an A - in his eyes our M is through and he is free to do what he likes ...
Even though I have called him on this time and time again, I DO believe that he did nothing before he called time on our M. He simply could not have ... ow is 2.5hrs flight away and H was still living here! What I do think is that he was becoming infatuated, so more likely EA but he denies that. I have watched his body language and his facial expression - I would know if he were lying and yet I really don't believe that he is.
All of this, in my view, makes it harder as those who leave for ow under different circumstances I mostly consider are just having a 'fling' and will at some time return. This is different. H was done before he left ... I don't think that there's any going back now - he is a deep thinker and he has made up his mind. Sadly, there will be no turning his ship around - saving a miracle.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
