Things are ok. H has not been gotten angry about anything - it is as if it is all gone - left the building. Never saw this before. Stress is low and he is taking much more responsibility for managing it and not dumping on me. We have agreed to no more R talks. At first that left us with nothing to talk about. This week though H has been listening to talk shows and reading more of a variety and talks about many different things so we can talk about anything. The warmth and comfortableness of our R has come back. It amazes me how that still survives.
My daughter came home for a mini -break but the two of them did fine together. D seems so changed - more mature and responsible.
I have been doing some work on my own issues and learning a lot. So I know if for any reason this M doesn't last, I will be ok.
