anyone? kind of need some outside perspective on this one. don't want to make an a** out of myself but I don't want to buckle on the lease issue. the temptation is to say that since I have no control, this is what I want. If you want x then I want y.

I feel that I have no control but don't want to make things worse!

Last edited by M A Holm; 10/11/09 08:05 PM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)