FIB, A paid trip to Venice (and the Rolex) sound tempting to me. I am a material girl, what can I say?
Seriously, all the things I have already told him and wrote to him, made very clear, this isnt easy to fix as far as I am concerned. And my stxH is a man that even at the C last year, when she asked, he wrote in his list that he is proud of his honesty, integrity and that he is a good person. All these are now what he lost, towards others and himself as well. I dont excuse him, but this man, had managed to make it all "right" in his head by making me look as the devil and justifying himself for his actions. He now says, he carries the weight of the facts and truth, his miserable actions and will have to live with that for the rest of his life... K