Sunny, he says he told her that he wants no communication with her. He hasnt yet told her he wants me and our M back. He says he will answer all my questions about her and their A and has agreed to tell me when and if she contacts him, but wants to shut her of our life completely. For me, it is important that she knows he wants/chose me to agree to this ONE chance.
Still, weirdly so, I dont think he would go back to her no matter what happens with us. I think in his head, she is connected to the source of humiliation and embarassement and loosing face.
Yes, it is much easier to have someone else make the decision for me, I agree. K
